The Fortnight of Remembrance
During Pitru Paksh, we honor our ancestors by performing Shraddh rituals to help their souls find peace as the boundaries between worlds blur.
Pitri Rina
Performing rituals now is believed to free the spirits of three generations of ancestors, repaying the debt we owe for our existence.
Universal Peace
Specific days are designated for honoring one's ancestors, but the period ends with Sarvapitri Amavasya, a day for making offerings to all souls, including those who do not have any living descendants.
The Lunar Cycle
Observing the Krishna Paksha marks the shift of energy towards ancestral realms as the moon wanes.
Dimensions of the Ceremony
An all-encompassing Shraddh goes beyond mere ceremony; it is a spiritual network intertwining nourishment, sustenance, and communal support. The following diagram illustrates the fundamental harmony of a customary practice.
- Pind Daan: The physical offering (nourishment).
- Tarpan: The energetic offering (libation).
- Seva & Charity: The social offering (merit).
Tithi Identification Guide
Determine the most fitting day for rituals by considering the ancestors' connection or the unique circumstances of their death.
Ritual Procedure
Preparation is crucial for a successful Shraddh ceremony. Utilize the checklist to collect necessary materials and adhere to the traditional order for a household Tarpan ritual.
Preparation Checklist
Setting the Space
Place a wooden platform facing SouthLay out a fresh white cloth, then place the sesame seeds, barley, and kusha grass neatly. Remember to wash your hands and perform Aachman for purification.
The Invocations
Turn to the East for deities, the North for wise ones. Provide water and white sesame seeds. Concentrate on the ancestral light that came before you were born.
Pitri Tarpan
Turn towards the southern direction. Utilize the 'Pitri Teerth' area to pour water combined with black sesame. Invite your ancestors by name and lineage in your thoughts.
Pancha Bali (The 5 Offerings)
Get ready to make five servings of food for: Cow (Go Bali), Dog (Shwan Bali), Crow (Kaka Bali), Ants (Devadi Bali), and the Brahmin/Priest.
Code of Conduct
Key rules to uphold the sacredness of the Pitru Paksh observance.
✔ Observances
- Perform Tarpan during the 'Kutupa Muhurta' (noon time).
- Observe austerity in speech, action, and diet.
- Show kindness to animals and the elderly.
- Practice silent meditation or read sacred texts like Garuda Purana.
✖ Restrictions
- Avoid starting new business ventures or major purchases.
- Refrain from consuming 'Tamasic' items (meat, alcohol).
- Postpone celebratory events like engagements or housewarmings.
- Avoid conflict or harsh arguments within the family.